No interest in sex anymore
Sex used to be part of your life. Now the urge just is not there. You may still care deeply for your partner, but the spark feels switched off.
Lots of things can turn desire down. Stress, broken sleep, and a low mood are common ones. So are some drugs, like the pill, blood pressure tablets, and pills for low mood.
Hormones shift as well: new motherhood, the years around menopause, and thyroid trouble. Pain during sex can dim desire too. So can a body that never gets a real rest.
When to see someone
See a doctor if sex hurts, if you bleed after it, or if you feel dry and sore down there. Book a visit for periods that change a lot, a lump in the breast, or hair loss and weight change. Go too if your mood has been low for weeks, or if this started soon after a new medicine.
Below you will find remedies people have long used for low desire. Each one has a grade for how strong the evidence is, not a promise of results. Check with your doctor or pharmacist before you try any of them.



