Dry and sore during sex
Sex starts, and your body just feels dry. Skin rubs on skin, so it can burn, sting, or feel raw. Some women stay sore for hours, or even the next day.
How wet you get depends a lot on estrogen, a hormone. Levels drop around menopause, after a baby, and while you breastfeed. Some pills can dry you out too, such as ones for colds, allergies, or low mood.
Time and mood matter as well. Many women need a long, slow warm-up before the body is ready. And pain itself can make you dread sex, which dulls desire.
When to see someone
Book a doctor if you bleed after sex, or bleed at all once your periods have stopped. Get checked for sores, lumps, itching, or discharge that smells or looks odd. Also go if the pain sits deep inside, keeps getting worse, or burns when you pee.
Below are remedies linked to low desire in women, each with an evidence grade. A grade shows how much research exists, not a promise of results. Check with your doctor or pharmacist before you try one.



