Feel nothing when my partner touches me
Your partner reaches for you, and the touch just lands. No spark, no pull, no want. You may still love them, yet the feeling seems to have gone quiet.
Many things can dull that spark. Long stress, broken sleep, and low mood are common ones. So is being worn out by work, small kids, or care for a sick parent.
Hormones shift too. The pill, breastfeeding, and the years around menopause can all play a part.
Some drugs for low mood, pain, or blood pressure can as well. Anger or distance between you two can also mute touch.
When to see someone
See your doctor if this came on fast, or soon after you started a new drug. Book a visit if you feel low or flat most days, or if you also have pelvic pain, odd bleeding, or hot flushes. Go sooner if your skin feels numb or tingly, or if sex is being pushed on you at home.
Below are remedies people have long used for low desire in women. Each one has a grade that shows how strong the proof behind it is. A grade is not a promise, so talk with your doctor before you try any of them.



